Tuesday, 17 July 2007
thoughts
hi. supposed to be doing FPS *grimace* but... well... hey, it's not everyday that u get to blog in your school's computer lab right???
pertaining thoughts, i feel that people should not keep all their thoughts to themselves. apart from the alleged saying--your brain would explode if you keep too much thoughts to yourself--, it does not allow people to get to know you, to understand you. and keeping dark thoughts to yourself will have negative impacts too, like depression, suicidal thoughts, etc...
if you insist on keeping to yourself, please do not blame people if they ignore you, or do not talk to you. especially if you act pissed off. it may not be that they do not want to talk to you, but instead they do not
dare to talk to you. there is a big difference, you know.
telling people about your thoughts can maybe make that confidante improve, too. like if you are not happy about that person's actions, tell him/her, instead of getting angry at him/her, or worse, telling
another person about it. if you do not dare to be so direct, write it down or say it via msn. letting friendships soil due to opinions kept to oneself is
not worth it.
i do not mind if people are frank and tell me if something about me pisses them off, but
please, don't be too straightforward. don't bruise my feelings, or make me angry by the bluntness. thank you.
try telling your friends your thoughts. maybe you will profit from it...
EYE DO. <3
Jeslynn @ 00:19
